All the best.. I left on a positive note and we didnt argue . We chatted for a month or two and then I went to his house and we had sex. How delusional can u be? We arent exclusive but he ocassionally alludes he doesnt want me seeing anyone else. He told me it was ok, he kissed me and told me that I had to tell him everytime I felt unconfortable with him.and that was the last time I saw him. He talked about wanting to see my apartment and other things that would leave me to believe this would not be the last time I saw him. But please do not reach out to him again. Telling someone theyre needy and desperate doesnt make them magically gain self esteem and feel their own self worth, it just makes you feel superior on your throne of perfection and feel good about yourself. I wanted to check with you to see how your situation is? So, the relationship isnt necessarily done and over. Dates ARE personal, and when a man disappears, its essentially saying, thanks but no thanks. Ick. As I have mentioned before, after he sent the email asking for a break, I waited ovr week to reply. This is all because you were sold the Feminism bag of goods. He is not the kind of man that stays alone. Married We got along great and he asked me out for a second date while still on the first. Where do they go? He seemed so head over heels for me and I dont know what happened. I am putting everything into trying not to send off an email asking for some sort of closure. Its really not right it is so mean to treat people that way. Then i started to notice that he wasnt so much. I was pretty insecure and he knew that but he was he one having nightmares at night that id leave him. Good luck, I am thinking of you! There is a right and a wrong. Im going through the same thing. I felt secure he genuinely wanted to know me so we got physical when I saw him on our official first date. You ignored the second indication he wasnt into you by creeping the profile of the girl he actually was interested in, which makes you a bit psycho. The day of the date he sent a cancellation text. If he was the right guy for youwell he would be with you! Im so confused he wont talk to me or respond to my email- but he says he can go to couples therapy in a week?? Im curious.. removed me from his social network accounts and ignored my messages. What would men do if women just suddenly stopped texting? Sorry, I am no walkover and will not let any man give me a date to meet him without discussing it with me first, so I told him, sorry tied up tomorrow, but is Wed or Thurs good for you? Let him know that you have your standards and that you're not willing to discard them just because you like him. I am very much independent. This texting among people just starting out is poison and all I see is an epidemic of hurt women for whatever reasons. I met a very young handsome and extremely wealthy guy. Id admit now I had trust issues, I didnt want to let him in and now I know why. Youre probably more grown up than he is in general. THEN the last line, he said I wont be able to get to the computer much to talk to you as Ill be bedridden (he uses a computer not a tablet or iphone for POF)but that caught me! After that, maybe hell come up with a reason why he hasnt been in touch, or maybe hell just say something like, What are you up to this weekend?, If he inquires about your plans but doesnt actually ask you out directly, heres when you can try the porcupine technique., Imagine if someone threw you a porcupine. Be glad he told you that, even if its not what you wanted to hear, because he could have just completely never contacted you again and done a complete disappearance on you,which I think is way worse. He asked me out again right there. So 3 nights ago I went dancing and hit it off with the bartender in a small joint. Its been a week and I keep replaying the whole date. I had a really hard time reading your storyI only understood half of it. Stop texting me? Rather than vanishing, what he did was leave you hanging. My response was..- work harder, you hurt my feelings but I moved on and please leave my belongings at my door. I feel so stupid sometimes cause deep down I want to hear from him. Its very painful to not know why. This year I wished him happy birthday again through a friends Facebook and a few days later he gave me his number telling me to text him. When I sent him the picture he said I was so beautiful and ever since then he wont return my texts of my calls. We talked regularly after that, and snapchatted like she usually did but then last weekend I had to work and study for a midterm so we didnt talk for 4 days. But I dont believe that all good looking girls end up with ugly guys as I have seen very good looking and successful guys with not very attractive women and I have also seen good looking pairs together. I hold both my undergraduate and medical degrees from the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). And funny enough, he texted over the weekend. It is really unfortunate that this is something you now have to deal with, but I would advise you to use this as a lesson. At first I thought hed met someone else on his weekend but to be honest its not like we were official so I dont get why he would cut me out! some people can be so mean and cruel. Hi, just need some advice. I met this guy on a dating site and liked his total package . For men its generally pretty simple- your attraction at first is coupled with curiosity- if the attraction holds you will continue to explore your curiosity about her. This behavior has probably always been a mystery to you but youre about to find out all of the hidden secrets about it. There will probably be no contact from me again. Loving friendships can happen anywhere, but for actual romance you need that 3rd dimension. Theres always an option. As in, send a picturelol I have nice feet and it wasnt a big deal. He deleted a load of girls without me requesting it. He told me about his problems and his family and he would always reassure me when I get insecure. Once I came back off holiday it was a month after the break up, I went to his to get closure because I wanted to know why he did it. What do I do? A simple text saying, I am sorry, but I dont think were a good match and I would like to move on would have done the job. I guess in his case its not ghosting but it became plain emotional abuse, as he has known me for so long and still manages to hurt me on purpose when disappearing. Ive met one person in particular that Im really into, so well see what happens! I know when someone is laying it on thick. What about when he tells you I love you I am in love with you and then all of a sudden poof no more. I will admit, it hurt pretty bad and out a huge dent to my ego. did i get too clingy? Time differences dont matter for them. Always wanting to be with me. Or maybe it came suddenly, out of the blue. No need to be upset girl No birthday card, no Xmas presents, no valentines card. I was miserable and baffled. During this month of his vacation, its just once that we talked via bbm and i was the one who started the conversation. 1) Part of them misses you. To this day I still dont know what happened, but although he chose to dispose of what we had, I am just greatful that I a man not with a guy that doesnt value me, because life is too short to be wasted on irrelevant people. I had a crush on this guy for a really long while on social media and I followed him on facebook, out of curiosity and i didnt even talk with him. First date went really well and we agreed to see each other the day after. Do not reach out to him again. His text messages will become short and less frequent until he finally stops texting at all. Heres an example of what you guys are talking about from the guys point of view. You probably got the wrong person. He would be like, No, I have the right number, but you dont remember me I said, Well, thats what happens to guys who do disappearing acts and think the women you disappeared on would stick around waiting for you.. Youre obviously not a loser, but its not like you dont have baggage. Is it really over? Its all the new norm and for those of us who were fortunate enough to have a wonderful upbringing (which is rare nowadays), then we can look at ourselves in the mirror and be thankful we cannot or will not stoop to such lowlife activities. Youre judging this woman based on the small picture.making a long story short in a very negative way that is not the least bit empowering. are still immature jerks. But his too! He then started fading. We shared thoughts and have things in common. He said on to give him about a week to get his stuff together and that he will call me and let me whats going on I told him. What to text him when he disappears has also to do with your ability to text while being stressed and anxious. Im hurting everyday though, But im realizing this situation aint getting any better. Met a guy who didnt want a relationship. So last time i heard from him was a non response to my messages. He was happy to have distance. I know that is was not a normal relationship and we would not have been able to think about being together for a few years, as we were both still rearing children, and this is for the best in the long run, but the hurt I feel is overwhelming. I got friendly replies but obviously something had changed.. and then eventually he just didn't respond and I haven't heard from him since. I met a guy on an online dating website (needless to say, profile is now closed). And there was no goodbye, no thank you said or anything. Instead of making sure not to lose you, he willingly walked away from you and treated you as an option. Anyways, we talked for 2 months over the phone and snap chats and a couple of Skype calls and he was on my Instagram. I just learnt that it is not Im not good enough or He doesnt like me or We are not at good for each other or Its wrong for me to fall for someone who is beyond reach, its just that He is not emotionally available for the moment. I guess decency does not naturally come with good education and exposure huh. I cant seem to forget this guy. Help me sisters, i met this guy a week ago at my work. Not only did henot have decency to ccancelled, this man dropped off the face of the Earth AND made it so that I couldnt contact him, all without A SINGLE WORD. i didnt ask for a cent to repay. Doing anything that goes against what you believe and defines you as a human shouldnt be treated as something disposable. To state it more clearly, myself and many of my close friends have dated women who at first seem pretty wonderful, but their interest in us as PEOPLE takes a distant back seat to their interest in us as men. My boyfriend of 5 years did this to me several times! How could I be so wrong?! We had a lot going on: First of all, we were LDR (the worst!) Im ok I think. The damage is done, theres nothing you can do so dont torture yourself over it. Did he ask for gifts? Now its turned dating into pump and dump. Is this a line, where they were just curious, or could I actually be intimidating them without realizing it? When he disappears and you dont want to message him but you also dont want to spend days thinking about him, is there something else you can do? Why cant he just be a man and break up with me to my face?? I text him the next day, and get short, limited responses. Maybe once VR really takes off we all can date the studs and models of our dreams. Its a mutual emotional sickness. I didnt reply to a text that to me seemed very drawn out after he said he had been having a stressful week. I agree and i did exactly that recently. So if he throws you a What are you up to this weekend? instead of answering you can toss the response right back to him and say, Why, whats up?. I really feel this is not a constructive comment. Ok It is really that simple. unfortunately sometimes people fade away- and its not easy but you cant take it personally. then we talk on whatsapp till he asked me to visit him . Its obvious that he doesnt want to be with you for whatever reason. It took me awhile to reply to his text, when i did it was high-five happy and sexually overt, not a great reflection of me, I dont drink but when i re-read the text I sounded drunk! I said no.. And we swapped numbers again. Girls go on instragam and Facebook and all they do is post pics of themselves. I care about him and we had been seeing each other for awhile. Disappeared. He was like we CANNOT have SEXI said fine, I wasnt into someone not into me anyway. He was such a gentleman through out the trip that I could see myself falling in love. We would talk for a while and it would go a week or so, and we would talk again. We made plans for the summer and meeting each others kids. In the end, I know its gonna be hard at first. Feeling ick. And yeah I am being a smart ass. Mine is the same way. I replied hours later and he didnt reply back! Ive asked that too.. Do you want me to leave you alone? He just says, why would I want that? Presents for his lil nephews cas they always talked to me over the phone and asked for kids stuff and hed always joke about how I never get them Im hurt. I feel as if I no longer mean anything to him and this is very hurtful and heartbreaking. I didnt mention a relationship, a committmentjust asked, so that we could be on the same page. Well earlier this year things changed. Couple weeks went by and I texted him are if hes ok and nothing so two weeks after that I trxted politely that whatever hes chosen I wish him well. My gut is telling me something is wrong and im feeling like i need to listen to it. When he disappears from your life without a sign, you can easily text him with what you expect from him. Taking me out being there for me. This is interesting You ghost as a test to see if we will reach out? The last day of school (on december) we went to the mall and we ended up hooking in the car (I know, ridiculous ha). The last time we were together we talked for hours about every thing and anything. He kept telling me that there are some family issues he has going on and he has University to deal with, but I think his feelings for me might be dropping. We met 8 months ago, we worked together for few months & everyone at work thought something was going on between ushe had a girlfriend at the time, so I made sure not to get attached. . 1.he is above your league. Lol! He gets the benefits of a relationship without having to commit. When you want to text him what your needs are, it can sound something like this: Hey, I hope youre doing okay since I havent heard back from you. But the bottom line is he told you point blank he is not ready to offer you anything so you need to fall back. He told me that he still loved me he just had a lot on his mind. Then as the days went on less contact and he was even planning things to do on his own without my company. No.but I felt better.and I know I deserve better. One being he gave me a STD and wasnt aware that he could pass it on to me (Or was he thinking it would never happen to him?) He still texts me but he texts like hes not interested in me anymore, and I dont want to keep texting him because I dont want to seem desperatebut I really think hes gonna start texting me normal again but Im really upset about the way hes been acting and treating me should I just leave him alone??? He is choosing to not respond to you. A guy does this because hes messed up. If he cant give you what you want then maybe its best if he walks away and never comes back. I just cant understand how someone can go from being sooo close and attached to you to just no contact and so dry. I sent him a long message consoling him saying how I hope everything is ok but he never replied back. Clearly I get the hint lol. But all in all, I hope you find someone amazing one day, you deserve it. Care to join? He can go for days without remembering me. When you text him something like this, he may feel the need to finally be honest with you. Ill never understand that. Give her the same speech you wrote here. The last thing this guy told me was that he needed me with him, we even talked about marriage, he is a doctor, too, we like all the same things, he seemed to be crazy in love with me and then he suddenly just vanished. Maybe because I spoke up and said something of how I was really starting to feel. When he disappears from your life without a sign, you can easily text him with what you expect from him. Since he works at the store I get my groceries from I used a different picture.. Is it because he knew that there will be no sex and no nothing more or what.. why wont he explain or atleast try to.. Could anyone please explain.. Were you thinking about this quantitative list BEFORE dating this person? Let him know that you have your standards and that youre not willing to discard them just because you like him. We texted every single day almost all day for a month straight. If he was such a dick and could not write a word to me i figured this is not a person i could trust. Its evident you cant deal with confrontation head on and act like an immature boy that rather take the easy yet cowardly way out. All Rights Reserved. Youll be the backup plan hell come back to whenever he has no other choices to pick from. sometimes it seems for women time ALWAYS makes them more emotionally attached and im sure there are exceptions, but for me and for guys i know time will often help you fall out of interest with someone for a whole host of reasons. Its probably for ex sex. I really was trying not to bother him. Look at it the way they do, and maybe things will work out, but dont hold your breath and dont expect not to be hurt either. I normally snap a bunch of ppl through out the morning so I snapchatted him and a bunch of other ppl a video of what my dog was doing. I agree depending on the circumstance. From text msgs to phone calls that last hours and hours. I counted down with him After texting for 3 weeks I listened to friends who suggested I ask him to coffee! What does that mean? You thought it was going great, in fact, it was going awesome. My radar for bullshit, maturity, sincerity is pretty much stellar. A random person on the path of life? Take care and be good! He had NEVER answered. 2. Let catch up later. I never responded after that and thus far havent heard from him. kudos for moving on and being strong about it. To this, he replied, I totally agree and do you think we just got off on the wrong foot? I answered, I dont know. What? Its still not something ive completely solved but im a lot better than I was. Two of them got in contact with me much, much later. Im widowed, no children, no big baggage, attractive in my early 50s. They dont keep on deliberately meeting other people to make sure they have shopped around for the best deal. I am SO confused!!!! I told him in front of other people that I dont want to see him never again. Now I really turned . Later on that afternoon he didnt reach out to me. One day, poof, he pulled away for no reason. We both made time and hes even lose sleep because he wants time with me. Ive just come to the conclusion that he cant handle being in a committed relationship and feels thats what I deserved. Wish you all the best! This means, essentially, he's dating because it's his hobby and he has very little interest in pursuing anything more. Save the sweet talk for when you are interested in a woman, youll be doing your self and a lot of women a favor. I am mirroring his action. I know Im not a lot of work. He was so full on, saying I make him happy etc etc than boom nothing. Keep pursuing YOUR passions, your dreams, honour what you want in your life and take pleasure in meeting those people who cross your path for however long they choose to, but also take pleasure in who YOU decide to hang out with. I just dont get it. The next week everything was the same the same amount of talking and interest. (just aint gonna work out girl) Ok so Guys dissapearing on me has happened to me twice in less than 6 months. Its very sad and frustrating. My gut feeling just tells me. As a result, they begin to pull away for fear of being rejected should they decide to take the relationship further. Of and told me he has never met anyone like me and I was too good to be true but tjah he wants to settle Weve been staying in touch for some time and seeing each other, but weve had some fights etc. Tina, I know exactly are you feel (as I have discussed in a previous post. Please comment I need ADVISE here!!! Its just that over the phone and countless hours that we had talked for and things that we shared, I had developed that kinda relationship with him where I felt Not as well thought out. How do you put your mind at rest? It was like we had known each other for years instead of just a month. Called him a coward and a complete waste of my time. He wanted to flew to meet me (different country) and he made plan himself and I loved that plan and then he disappeared I thought he sick or anything i email him to asked if he was okay but he answered me hi, beautiful i had big test today, miss you so much, I will tell you about it when I get home I think he never gets home :( I am so confused about how things could be so happy one day and so distant the next. It was odd. Let me break it down for you: He didnt feel that he had anything invested in you. You will hate yourself when you realize you gave him control when you could have and should have dumped his worthless, selfish, uncaring ass instead. What about us? It was so real for me, and I thought it was real for him too. He dumped it and left. And most of the time, they will reason that the girl is probably on the same page so there is no need to reach out. He probably thinks someone hit on me or something and got mad and was going to punish me good. Because I just need some explanations about what happened, I just need him to clarify if we were okay or not. So we chatted. I sent him birthday gift which he should have received when I was texting him but ne never bothered to say thanks. Make sure that you give a day or two's break. It sucks and its hurting inside, but theres no point wasting your emotion and waiting for someone who doesnt really care about your feelings. Im As I once heard someone say your picker is broken. Theres nothing wrong with you. He went away on holidays and when he came back I texted him. When a guy disappears for days, maybe he involved with something and can't tell you right away or he just busy with all of his stuff. I am no longer going to send him messages because I get the hint. They never once touched me or kissed me. Major and then befor dropping him off at the airport, I asked him if he had fun and liked cas I met him online and really liked him so wanted to know and he said of course he did and why else would he spend so much time with me and I said , maybe he is just a nice guy and he said no he can be a jerk and if he didnt like me hed not spend time with me. about an hour went by and I call him he did not pick up at emailed him he didnt respond so what then I went to Facebook to message him at that point I realized that he had unfriended me. Even if he begs you to come back, you shouldnt reply to him, as thats what hes earned with his behavior. I had the Midnight FB text too and that worked for a while but I didnt want to be involved with an insecure fool who needed multiple partners. He was clearly pulling away. We never spoke in school I used to know his brother thats about it. He was always so communicative, so I really just want to know WHY? Said he wasnt going anywhere that i was it. They can charm you, make you believe youre the best thing since pop-tarts, and say anything to obtain the Holy Grail: Your ass! Your email address will not be published. Anyway I was in denial and thought maybe something happend and hed contact me the next day apologizing and making plans again to meet.y would he act so interested to just go Mia?! Truth! I felt like we had a good timehe took me to a really nice place after the restaurant where you can see the whole city and after that I went home cas I had told But no I wanted a clean break and went on with my life. Charnel, Right, its really hard to screw it up with him. 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